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lynhat
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08/02/2011

Tâm Sự Tài Xế Taxi... …. “Self Development”

Dạo trước em đi làm cu-li “process worker” 5 ngày trong hãng. Vì thiếu tiền xài, cuối tuần chạy xe taxi thêm 2 ngày nữa. Trong lúc rảnh chờ khách, em đọc đủ loại truyện, tác giả nào là Kim Dung, Quỳnh Dao, v..v

Sau mấy năm trời làm việc nhìn túi tiền của mình cũng chẳng có dư bao nhiêu.

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thanhvan4177
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05/20/2014

Có lẽ nhờ cái sự trau dồi này mà thành công.

lynhat
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05/20/2014

Chào chị Thanhvan4177,

Chị nói đúng đó. LN có được ngày hôm nay là nhờ học hỏi từ nhiều bậc thầy hơn 10 năm trời và áp dụng vào cuộc sống hàng ngày của mình.

Chúc chị luôn luôn khoẻ và vưọt qua những khó khăn.

lynhat
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05/28/2014

Doing the Remarkable
by Jim Rohn

When it comes to meeting and conquering the negativity in your life, here is a key question: What can you do, starting today, that will make a difference? What can you do during economic chaos? What can you do when everything has gone wrong? What can you do when you've run out of money, when you don't feel well and it's all gone sour? What can you do?

Let me give you the broad answer first. You can do the most remarkable things, no matter what happens. People can do incredible things, unbelievable things, despite the most impossible or disastrous circumstances.

Humans can do remarkable things because they are remarkable. Humans are different than any other creation. When a dog starts with weeds, he winds up with weeds. And the reason is because he's a dog. But that's not true with human beings. Humans can turn weeds into gardens.

Humans can turn nothing into something, pennies into fortune and disaster into success. And the reason they can do such remarkable things is because they are remarkable. Try reaching down inside of yourself—you'll come up with some more of those remarkable human gifts. They're there, waiting to be discovered and employed.

With those gifts, you can change anything for yourself that you wish to change. And I challenge you to do that because you can change. If you don't like how something is going for you, change it. If something isn't enough, change it. If something doesn't suit you, change it. If something doesn't please you, change it. You don't ever have to be the same after today. If you don't like your present address, change it—you're not a tree!

If there is one thing to get excited about, it's your ability to make yourself do the necessary things to get a desired result, to turn the negative into success. That's true excitement.

lynhat
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06/04/2014

Cảm hứng từ đề tài "CUỘC LỘT XÁC NÀO MÀ KHÔNG ĐAU ĐỚN?" của chị LOLEMSAIGON

Personal Philosophy Is Like the Set of the Sail
by Jim Rohn

In the process of living, the winds of circumstances blow on us all in an unending flow that touches each of our lives.

We have all experienced the blowing winds of disappointment, despair and heartbreak. Why, then, would each of us, in our own individual ship of life, all beginning at the same point, with the same intended destination in mind, arrive at such different places at the end of the journey? Have we not all been blown by the winds of circumstances and buffeted by the turbulent storms of discontent?

What guides us to different destinations in life is determined by the way we have chosen to set our sail. The way that each of us thinks makes the major difference in where each of us arrive. The major difference is the set of the sail.

The same circumstances happen to us all. We have disappointments and challenges. We all have reversals and those moments when, in spite of our best plans and efforts, things just seem to fall apart. Challenging circumstances are not events reserved for the poor, the uneducated or the destitute. The rich and the poor have the same challenges that can lead to financial ruin and personal despair. In the final analysis, it is not what happens that determines the quality of our lives—it is what we choose to do when we have struggled to set the sail and then discover, after all of our efforts, that the wind has changed directions.

When the winds change, we must change. We must struggle to our feet once more and reset the sail in the manner that will steer us toward the destination of our own deliberate choosing. The set of the sail, how we think and how we respond, has a far greater capacity to destroy our lives than any challenges we face. How quickly and responsibly we react to adversity is far more important than the adversity itself. Once we discipline ourselves to understand this, we will finally and willingly conclude that the great challenge of life is to control the process of our thinking.

Learning to reset the sail with the changing winds rather than permitting ourselves to be blown in a direction we did not purposely choose requires the development of a whole new discipline. It involves going to work on establishing a powerful, personal philosophy that will help to influence in a positive way all that we do and that we think and decide. If we can succeed in this worthy endeavor, the result will be a change in the course of our income, lifestyle and relationships. If we can alter the way we perceive, judge and decide upon the main issues of life, then we can dramatically change our lives.

lynhat
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06/05/2014

Education/Learning – Jim Rohn

“Learning is the beginning of wealth. Learning is the beginning of health. Learning is the beginning of spirituality. Searching and learning is where the miracle process all begins.”

“We must learn to apply all that we know so that we can attract all that we want.”

“Sharpen your interest in two major subjects: life and people. You will only gather information from a source if you are interested in it.”

lynhat
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06/10/2014

Wars are won by men with strong wills to win and with strong bodies!
- General George S. Patton

"General Patton believed, and I agree, that a strong will to win is most important, but building a strong body helps build a strong will to win. General Patton always stressed physical fitness, and anyone wanting to live with the Warrior’s Edge needs to do the same."

"It is important that we train body, mind and spirit, and the exercise that trains our bodies will help with the training of our minds and spirits. General Patton used to tell people sitting at a desk, “Get up and get out of here. Your brain stops working after you sit in a swivel chair…if you sit in the chair too long all of your brainpower will be in your shoes. You cannot keep your mind active when your body is inactive.”

"Today we have much more knowledge about physical fitness, training, and so on, but General Patton was spot on when he told people to move to stay in shape. Our bodies are built for movement, so get out and move. Regardless your fitness level right now, do something active each and every day and work to increase your health and fitness levels. Combine aerobic, anaerobic, strength training, flexibility training, breathing, and good nutrition to make your body strong and fit. It’s the first step to having a strong body, mind and spirit!"

lynhat
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06/17/2014

Become a Good Observer
by Jim Rohn

We must never allow a day to pass without finding the answers to a list of important questions: What is going on in our industry? What new challenges are currently facing our government? Our community? Our neighborhood? What are the new breakthroughs, the new opportunities, the new tools and techniques that have recently come to light? Who are the new personalities that are influencing world and local opinion?

We must become good observers and astute evaluators of all that is going on around us. All events affect us, and what affects us leaves an imprint on what we will one day be and how we will one day live.

One of the major reasons why people are not doing well is because they keep trying to get through the day. A more worthy challenge is to try to get from the day. We must become sensitive enough to observe and ponder what is happening around us. Be alert. Be awake. Let life and all of its subtle messages touch us.

Often, the most extraordinary opportunities are hidden among the seemingly insignificant events of life. If we do not pay attention to these events, we can easily miss the opportunities.

So be a good observer of both life and the world around you.

lynhat
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06/21/2014

This Is How You Leave a Legacy
- Jim Rohn

1. Life is best lived in service to others. This doesn’t mean that we do not strive for the best for ourselves. It does mean that in all things we serve other people, including our family, co-workers and friends.

2. Consider others’ interests as important as your own. Much of the world suffers simply because people consider only their own interests. People are looking out for number one, but the way to leave a legacy is to also look out for others.

3. Love your neighbor even if you don’t like him. It is interesting that Jesus told us to love others. But he never tells us to like them. Liking people has to do with emotions. Loving people has to do with actions. And what you will find is that when you love them and do good by them, you will more often than not begin to like them.

4. Maintain integrity at all costs. There are very few things you take to the grave with you. The number one thing is your reputation and good name. When people remember you, you want them to think, “She was the most honest person I knew. What integrity.” There are always going to be temptations to cut corners and break your integrity. Do not do it. Do what is right all of the time, no matter what the cost.

ototot
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06/21/2014

"Làm giàu", "làm tiền"… thì thiên hạ đã nói nhiều, lâu lâu mới nghe nói đến "làm người"!

Thấy ông Jim Rohn bàn chuyện này, với 4 nguyên tắc, thì cảm hứng nên xin bàn thêm bằng tiếng Việt:

Sống đẹp nhất là sống cho tha nhân! Đúng vậy, sống cho mình đã đành, nhưng chỉ cho mình thôi, thì … cũng chưa hay lắm!
Quan tâm cuả người cũng quan trọng như quan tâm cuả ta! Thì đây cũng là sống với tha nhân rồi!
Hãy yêu người, dù không thích người đó! Quả thực là "yêu" với "thích" không đồng nghiã, vì "yêu" đòi hỏi phải hành động, còn "thích" dù sao cũng chỉ là cảm tính thôi!
Hãy giữ lòng ngay thẳng cho đến cùng! Đã coi trọng lòng trung tín, thì cũng đừng để lung lạc mà đôi lúc "xuề xoà" (cut corners) bỏ qua nhé! Ai cũng chết và chẳng mang theo được gì xuống nhà mồ ngoài tiếng thơm khi còn sống!

Chẳng biết bàn như thế có trái với ý cuả người viết không?

Thân ái,

lynhat
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06/22/2014

Bác OTOTOT,

4 nguyên tắc của ông Jim Rohn thấy rất hay, cháu đang áp dung cho bản thân.

Nguyên tắc "4. Hãy giữ lòng ngay thẳng cho đến cùng!" rất khó làm. Cháu áp dung được 50%, kết quả đưa đến rất bất ngờ.

Nói tóm lại được tâm hồn bình thản "peace of mind" là tốt rồi!

ototot
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06/22/2014

Thuộc từ "integrity" cuả tiếng Anh có nghiã rất rộng, và khó dịch sang tiếng Việt, đại khái là sự thật thà,ngay thẳng, sống theo đạo lý..., nói chung là tất cả những gì gọi là "thiện", ngược lại với "ác", để sống "làm người"!

Ý nghiã cuả "integrity" nó rộng như thế, nên bác nào giỏi ngôn ngữ, thử tìm ra từ nào cuả tiếng Việt tương đương nhất đi!

Trong chính trị, người lãnh tụ thì thề trung thành với nước, với dân, đôi khi còn nói "tuyệt đối trung thành"...; trước pháp đình thì thề nói sự thật, toàn bộ sự thật, không gì khác hơn sự thật, khi bạn ra Toà mà giơ tay phải lên nói như vậy (như người Anh Mỹ bảo "I swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, nothing but the truth" hay người Pháp thì nói "Je jure de dire la vérité, toute la vérité, rien qua la vérité").

Trong đề tài này, ông Jim Rohn khuyên người ta hãy "sống lương thiện bằng mọi giá" ("maintain integrity at all costs"), tức là có ... chết cũng cứ nói sự thật, 100% sự thật, chứ đừng ... sợ quá, thiệt quá, mắc cở quá, ... hay "kẹt" quá mà chỉ nói phần nào sự thật!

Riêng bác LN thì bảo chỉ nói ... 50% sự thật, thì e rằng 50% còn lại là ... nói dối chăng?!!!

Theo tôi, cứ phải nói 100% sự thật; còn sợ chết, sợ thiệt, sợ kẹt, thì tốt hơn là ... đừng xác nhận, đừng thề, đừng nói bao nhiêu phần trăm nếu ... chưa đến 100%!!!

Hì hì hì!

Thân ái,

lynhat
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06/23/2014

“Theo tôi, cứ phải nói 100% sự thật; còn sợ chết, sợ thiệt, sợ kẹt, thì tốt hơn là ... đừng xác nhận, đừng thề, đừng nói bao nhiêu phần trăm nếu ... chưa đến 100%!!!”
OTOTOT

Bác OTOTOT,

Phải thành tâm mà nói, từ lúc học hỏi từ ông Jim Rohn, Zig Ziglar, Earl Nightingale, v..v, :

- 85% cháu nói đều là sự thật;
- 10% không nói gì cả;
- 5% vì tình thế phải nói dối để bảo vệ tánh mạng và gia đình.

Rất đồng ý với bác OTOTOT, chữ "integrity" rất là bao la!

lynhat
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06/23/2014

Cải cách ruộng đất - lấy của người giàu chia cho người nghèo

"I remember in school being told the story of Robin Hood and his Merry Men. My teacher thought it was a wonderful story of a romantic hero who robbed from the rich and gave to the poor. My rich dad did not see Robin Hood as a hero. He called Robin Hood a crook. "
- Robert T. Kiyosakí

ototot
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06/24/2014

Khi nói về nhân vật mà nhiều người gọi là "hiệp sĩ" Robin Hood, theo truyền thuyết là người chuyên môn đi cướp đoạt cuả người giàu đem phát cho người nghèo, tác giả Robert T. Kiyosaki đã viết, như tiếng Việt thì như thế này:

"Tôi nhớ khi còn đi học, có nghe kể về Robin Hood và "Bọn Hồ Hởi" cuả ổng. Ông thày giáo cuả tôi cho rằng đây là một giai thoại tuyệt cú mèo về một kẻ "anh hùng" đi cướp cuả dân giàu để phân phát cho dân nghèo. Ông Bố tôi chẳng thấy Robin Hood anh hùng ở chỗ nào, và chỉ gọi hắn là một tên "lưu manh"!"

Thì ra ở thời buổi nào thì hư thực vẫn lẫn lộn, cho đến khi ... "Cháy nhà mới ra mặt chuột!"!

Thân ái,

lynhat
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06/30/2014

Bác OTOTOT,

Cảm ơn bác OTOTOT đã dịch đoạn văn ở trên về Robin Hood.

lynhat
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07/05/2014

"Learn to work harder on yourself than you do on your job,” -Jim Rohn
The late philosopher says with his unique cadence and tone.

"But listen to the words from Rohn’s mouth and you know that this man’s advice is anything but contradictory. He’s not saying you shouldn’t work hard at a job you love. The hard work comes naturally when you love what you do. What Rohn is saying is that personal development—the building and strengthening of you—is how you become better at everything else. Communication, time management, goal setting, leadership—these all improve when you do."

lynhat
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07/08/2014

The Law of Sowing and Reaping
by Jim Rohn

Here’s the first of the basic laws of leadership: Whatever you sow, you reap. Now here’s another way to put it on the positive side: In order to reap, you must sow. Reaping is reserved for those who sow, who plant. To deserve the harvest, you must plant the seed. Take care of it in the summer. Carefully harvest it and then do wise things with the harvest.

Now, here’s the rest of the law of sowing and reaping. If you sow good, you reap good. If you sow bad, you reap bad. You can’t sow bad and hope for good. You can’t plant weeds and hope for flowers. Here’s something else about the law of sowing and reaping. You don’t reap only what you sow. That’s important to understand. You reap much more than what you sow. If you just reaped what you sow, what’s the exercise for?

An important thing to understand about that is it works both positive and negative. The old prophet said, “If you sow the wind, you don’t reap wind, you reap a whirlwind.” You’ve got to be careful sowing the wind. It comes back as a whirlwind. That’s on the negative side. But now it also works on the positive side. If you plant a cup of corn, how much do you get back—a cup? No, a bushel for the cup. You get back much more than what you plant. That’s the reason for planting—for the increase.

Now here’s the next key to the law of sowing and reaping. Sometimes it doesn’t work at all. Everybody has to understand. The farmer plants the crop in the spring and takes care of it all summer. He’s an honorable man. Loves his family and is a decent citizen. But the day before he sends the combines into the field, a hailstorm comes along and beats his crop into the ground. And it’s gone. It’s lost.

So this time it didn’t work. Now what must the farmer do? He’s got to decide whether to do it again or not. “Shall we take another chance the next spring?” We would advise him to do so even though he lost everything in the last harvest because more often than not, you’ll have a harvest if you plant in the spring. There’s no guarantee, but it’s pretty good odds. It’s better than Las Vegas. Incredible! The law of sowing and reaping.

lynhat
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07/15/2014

Skills Make Labor More Valuable
by Jim Rohn

I'm a very big proponent of activity, labor and discipline. In fact, I devoted one of the five major pieces to the life puzzle to the subject of activity and labor. But now let me add another key word to the labor equation: skillful. Yes, skillful labor.

We need the skills to help build our family's dreams, the skills to stir up an enterprise and make it successful. We need skills to build equities for the future. We need skills of all kinds.

And how about this: skillful language. If you just talk to your family, you can hold them all together, but if you skillfully talk to your children, you can help them build dreams for the future. That is why I spend so much time on communication—how to affect others with words. You can't be lazy in language; it costs too much. What if you meant to say, “What's troubling you?” and instead you said, “What's wrong with you?” Wow, that's too big a mistake. And sure you could have made that mistake 10 years ago, but not now. You should have gotten much better by now in language and communication.

Skills multiply labors by two, by five, by 10, by 50, by 100 times. Hey, you can chop a tree down with a hammer, but it takes about 30 days. But if you trade the hammer in for an ax, you can chop the tree down in about 30 minutes. What's the difference in 30 days and 30 minutes? Skills. Skills made the difference.

So do what you can—labor. But also do the best that you can do—improved skills. You will find that the labor combined with skills will start producing miracles. Miracles with your money. Miracles with your family. And miracles in every part of your life.

lynhat
member

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07/29/2014

Take Control of Your Destiny
By Jim Rohn

One of the first things successful people realize is the old adage, “If it is to be, it is up to me.” That is your success and your course is up to you. This doesn't mean that you do it all alone. It simply means that you take responsibility for your life and your career.

Too many people today look at opportunity and figure it is up to someone else to make sure they get it. They look at financial security and hope that the government will make sure they live safely in retirement or in case of disability. They wait and wait, figuring that it is all up to someone else. And then the wait is over, and it is too late to do anything. Their life is over and they are filled with regret.

But this isn't true for you. You know that you must take responsibility for your life. It is up to you. The fact is that nobody else is going to do it for you, you must do it yourself.

I have nothing against affirmations as a tool to create action. Repeated to reinforce a disciplined plan, affirmations can help create wonderful results.

Now, some people may say, “Jim, that's a lot of responsibility.” Friends, that is the best news you can ever hear. You get to choose your life. Hundreds of millions of people all around this world would give anything to live in the situation you do—just for the chance to have the opportunity to take control of their destiny. “It is up to you” is a great blessing!

Here's why:

1. You get to chart your own destiny. Maybe you want to start a small business and stay there. That's great because you can choose that. Maybe you want to have a net worth of $100 million. The idea is that you get to choose. You can do whatever you like. Different people have different dreams and they should live them accordingly.

2. You can reap what you sow. Sleep in and go to work late and reap the return. Or get up early and outwork the others and earn a greater return. You decide what you will sow and thus what you will reap.

3. No one else can stop you from getting your dream. Yes, there will always be things that come up and people who may not like what you are doing, but you can just move on and chart your own course. There is great freedom in that.

4. You experience the joy of self-determination. There is no greater pride than knowing you set your mind on something and accomplished it. Those who live with a victim mentality never get to experience the joy of accomplishment because they are always waiting for someone else to come to the rescue. Those who take responsibility get to live the joy of seeing a job well done.

Let me ask you a question: Where will you be in five years? Ten years? Or 25 years? Do you know? Do you have an idea? Have you ever dreamed about it or set a goal for it? Are you willing to take responsibility and recognize that “it is up to you?”

lynhat
member

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08/12/2014

4 Things You Can Learn from Your Child
- Jim Rohn

Remember the master teacher once said 2,000 years ago, “Unless you can become like little children, your chances are zero; you haven’t got a prayer.” This is a major consideration for adults. Be like children, and remember there are four ways to be more like a child no matter how old you get.

1. Curiosity
Be curious; embrace childish curiosity. What will kids do if they want to know something bad enough? You’re right. They will bug you. Kids can ask a million questions. You think they’re through, then they’ve got another million. They will keep plaguing you. They can drive you right to the brink.

Kids use their curiosity to learn. Have you ever noticed that while adults are stepping on ants, children are studying them? A child’s curiosity is what helps them to reach, learn and grow.

2. Excitement
Learn to get excited like a child. There is nothing that has more magic than childish excitement. So excited that you hate to go to bed at night… that you can’t wait to get up in the morning… that you’re about to explode. How can anyone resist that kind of childish magic?

Now, once in a while I meet someone who says, “Well, I’m a little too mature for all that childish excitement.” Isn’t that pitiful? You’ve got to weep for these kinds of people. All I’ve got to say is, “If you’re too old to get excited, you’re old.” Don’t get that old.

3. Faith
Faith is childish. How else would you describe it? Some people say, “Let’s be adult about it.” Oh, no. No. Adults too often have a tendency to be overly skeptical. Some adults even have a tendency to be cynical.

Adults say, “Yeah. I’ve heard that old positive line before. It will be a long day in June before I fall for that positive line. You’ve got to prove to me it’s any good.” See, that’s adult, but kids aren’t that way. Kids think you can get anything. They are really funny. You tell them, “We’re going to have three swimming pools.” And they say, “Yeah. Three. One each. Stay out of my swimming pool.” See, they start dividing them up right away, but adults are not like that. Adults say, “Three swimming pools? You’re out of your mind. Most people don’t even have one swimming pool. You’ll be lucky to get a tub in the backyard.”

You notice the difference? No wonder the master teacher said, “Unless you can become like little children, your chances, they’re skinny.”

4. Trust
Trust is a childish virtue, but it has great merit. Have you heard the expression “Sleep like a baby”? That’s it. Childish trust. After you’ve gotten an A+ for the day, leave it in somebody else’s hands.

Curiosity, excitement, faith and trust. That is a powerful combination to bring (back) into our lives.

thanhvan4177
member

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08/12/2014

Lynhat hàng ngày tự trau dồi nên có sự thành công là điều tất nhiên.

lynhat
member

REF: 681924
08/13/2014

Chào chị Thanhvan4177,

LN đọc sách hoặc nghe hoặc xem những người thầy của LN, ít nhất hơn một tiếng đồng hồ mỗi ngày.

Đây là thói quen hơn 10 năm rồi.

LN biết "download" sách, hoặc thâu CDs hoặc DVDs qua mạng không tốn một xu. Biết mà không làm.

Tất cả đều mua chị Thanhvan4177 à. LN rất tôn trọng họ.

thanhvan4177
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08/14/2014

@Lynhat.
Thật là một văn hóa đẹp khi mình tôn trọng thành quả lao động của mỗi người.

lynhat
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08/14/2014

Chị Thanhvan4177,

Chuyện đó cũng bình thường thôi chị à! Ai làm ăn cũng muốn kiếm lời.

Mình là người mua, cũng muốn người bán có lời. Đầy là LN học hỏi từ ông thầy Jim Rohn.

Nếu mua nhà cửa cho mướn, LN xem có vợ chồng nào đánh lộn, ra tòa chia tài sản, ly dị, đây là thời cơ đi trả giá mua nhà. Nếu bán thì mua, không bán thì thôi.

Phương pháp này học từ thầy Robert T. Kiyosaski và Dolf De Roos.

lynhat
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09/05/2014

Be Thankful for What You Already Have
by Jim Rohn

Is thankfulness a survival skill? Perhaps most of you would respond with, “No, Jim, thankfulness is not key to survival,” and I would tend to agree with you. Most of us have probably already solved the necessary problems of survival, gone beyond that and are now working to achieve our desires. But let me give you this key phrase: “Learn to be thankful for what you already have, while you pursue all that you want.” I believe one of the greatest and perhaps one of the simplest lessons in life we can learn is to be thankful for what we have already received and accomplished.

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